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Tonight, we have a poet who is releasing his debut poetry book in early January, which is currently available for pre-order and has themes about overcoming different obstacles. From survival, heartbreak, abuse, loss, and more, in this volume, life is anything but “BitterSweet”.
May I introduce to you all to Lior Gavra, as he chats to us about how he created his debut poetry book and his writing experiences producing it.
Thanks for reading and have a great evening 🙂
Hi there Lior, thank you for joining us to talk about your inspirations, writing style and your latest poetry book release.
Firstly, let’s start with your debut poetry book release, which is now available for pre-order on Amazon. Why is your book called “BitterSweet”, what is the relevance to the poems and collection itself?
My book’s journey has begun while commuting to work, and before I even thought of putting my stories into a book, I put them up publicly. I got some good feedback, which pushed me into writing more stories. Each story includes bits of my life, which includes a lot of bittersweet moments.
As I continued to write each character I realized that just like my life or anyone else’s, nothing ever comes easy. Everyone goes through some form of hardship, but when that sweetness comes it makes it all worth it. The moment where you can feel the excitement crawling through your skin, making you want to scream, makes all the bitter parts fade away.
Each story leaves a bittersweet taste, starting out with an obstacle, that turns into a sweet/positive message, but not always with the ending expected.
What are the themes that unite “BitterSweet” together and how did you approach preparing them for a collection? Did you have to remove any poems that did not fit into the core themes that you were exploring for this book?
The themes vary, but just like the title they all have this concept that “Life will always be BitterSweet.” Each character has some realization that can be relatable to every person. Some stories overlap on similar messages, but each represents it a bit differently, and play off the quotes that break up each “section.”
I had more poems I was thinking of including, but as each story written became a part of the book, none were removed.
How does a poem begin for you? Does it start with an image, a form or a particular theme?
The poems for this collection went through two major passes, the first pass was to get the story down, the feelings, without thinking too much about the word selection. It was about the character that could push the message that I have experienced with the obstacle and the “twist” that would take place, then I began to paint his story.
On the second pass, I did add some of my own stylistic touches, for example almost every story starts with four stanzas where the first letter spells my first name. Each story has some rhythm to it based on the feel I tried to convey, whether it had to include “masculine” words, lowercase letters, etc.
Are there any forms you haven’t tried yet but would like to?
I am always in search for new forms of writing, or ways to add creative artistic touches. I have some ideas that I would like to explore once this book is released.
How important is accessibility of the meaning of your poems? Should we have to work hard to “solve” the poems and discover their deeper meanings?
My poems were meant to be simple with a lot of buried meanings. Each has a simple message that can be derived by all types of readers, but then the word choices, rhythms, and characteristics create a richer and deeper character that can be explored by those who want to take it one step further. Also, each story has some hidden messages/experiences that can be connected to situations that have occurred in my life for those who know me.
What are your main sources of inspiration or research when it comes to crafting your poetry?
I did read a lot of poetry from my peers, and the great poetry community found throughout the internet. I truly get inspired by other people’s writings disregarding their professional level. There is some rawness to it that reveals their inner voices. The voices that are not otherwise shared with others are my greatest inspiration.
Has your own opinion or idea of what poetry is changed since you first started writing poetry?
Yes, originally, I felt that poetry had to be very personal, and abstract to those who do not surround themselves with it. After reading some work, going through some books, and just writing more, I realized it is more than that; it is your voice, and it is the closest thing to art, where every word becomes a powerful part to create this great masterpiece.
What would you choose as your own personal mascot or spirit animal when it comes to you and your style of writing?
I look to the lion, and the idea of a Leo can be found throughout my book. A strong animal, with leadership qualities to help motivate others and to strengthen himself/herself with the ability to take control of a bitter situation. I am biased as well, as I am a Leo myself.
What were the hardest parts of “BitterSweet” to write? And what were the easiest?
The idea of the book is that life is BitterSweet, and as I mentioned a lot of bits and pieces of my life were embedded into it, which made it that much harder for me to relive some of the tougher moments in my life when writing some of the stories. From losing my grandfather to being heartbroken and everything in between.
The easiest part, which is not to say that it was easy at all, would be the setup for self-publishing. A lot of people are under this impression that publishing is really hard, but with technology nowadays, it is easier than they think.
Who are some of your favourite authors, historical figures, poets and poems?
As I mentioned I appreciate new writers, and do not fall onto one specific person. My family, friends and community around me do inspire me so much. Also, all the great leaders that push towards inspiring others to achieve the “impossible.”
In terms of books, I have always enjoyed Science Fiction novels, and the imagination they have brought to life. Also, Paulo Coelho’s “The Alchemist” was a great novel that has similar qualities to the protagonist’s obstacle’s that create a rollercoaster ride of BitterSweet situations. When it comes to poets, I have looked up to Shakespeare, Frost, Cummings, Poe and others in some way or another.
What keeps you motivated during creative slumps? How do you deal with Writers Block?
My number one source of getting rid of writer’s block is putting down the pen or phone, and just walking outside, the busier the area the better. I observe people and their reaction to their surroundings. Sometimes even animals, a leaf, or even just the way the wind feels against my skin. The little things that are forgotten or taken for granted from time to time.
Also, traveling, it helps open up my eyes to different cultures, and how they do things differently.
How do you spend your free time when you are not writing?
I work in tech and geek out on playing with the latest technology. Also, I have a deep passion for music, and try to play the piano/guitar daily. It is another way that I like to push out what cannot be put into words through musical notes.
Regarding your subsequent projects, will you be writing another poetry book or do you have other projects in the pipeline?
My next projects is still undecided, I already have a novel and another poetry book in the works, but after the book release, I will decide on my next work.
Finally, are there any nuggets of wisdom that you can impart to other aspiring poets?
I wrote a piece a few weeks ago or months at this point, called “Inspire On!” The idea behind that is to continue writing despite what people say, because as long as it impacts someone, and that someone can be yourself, then it is worth writing. Just like any craft, to get better at it, it just requires you to write more and more. Also, this is the sentence that I like to pass on to others, to hopefully push this idea of inspiration, to help make the world a more inspired place.
And that’s a wrap! Thank you Lior for sharing your experiences of writing poetry with us, we can’t wait to check out your poetry collection and be inspired by your passionate, thoughtful pieces 🙂
Lior Gavra, the author of BitterSweet, is a New York native, writer, poet, and global traveler. Lior’s stories and themes are drawn not only from his past experiences but from his raw, insightful observations of life and people. His characters might include different professions that are based on his current or past pursuits. He brings out the small yet significant bits and pieces of their lives and their very real worlds, inspiring his diverse audience of readers.
Lior has a Bachelor’s degree in business, finance, and marketing, but he left “numbers” for “words” in hopes of spreading a positive message and making a difference. Writing started out for him as a hobby, quickly writing down his ideas and thoughts. Then slowly became a passion and a lifestyle, a way for him to emote and pour out his imagination. Currently, he is working on more literary works while continually exploring the captivating world in which we live.
You can connect with Lior via the following Social Media channels:-
Facebook:- Lior Gavra – Author (FB)
Instagram:- @lgavra (Instagram)
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Website:- BitterSweet – Inspire those around you, so inspiration surrounds you. – Poetry by Author Lior Gavra
You can buy his book here:-
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